When Taylor Swift dropped the track “Actually Romantic” on her surprise album Life of a Showgirl, the pop world collectively held its breath. The record, released on September 27, 2024, feels less like a love song and more like a razor‑sharp reply to British pop provocateur Charli XCX. Fans and journalists instantly linked the lyrical jabs to XCX’s own “Sympathy Is a Knife” from her 2024 BRAT album, sparking what many are calling the year’s hottest pop beef.
Background: The Swift‑XCX Tension
The feud can be traced back to the summer of 2024, when XCX rolled out the track “Sympathy Is a Knife.” In a chorus that whispered, “I couldn’t even be her if I tried / I’m opposite, I’m on the other side,” listeners speculated she was taking aim at Swift’s high‑profile breakup drama. Adding fuel, a verse seemed to reference Swift’s past romance with Matty Healy of the indie‑rock outfit The 1975, suggesting a backstage rivalry.
At the time, XCX had once opened for Swift’s 2018 Reputation Stadium Tour – a fact that made the idea of a clash feel oddly personal. Yet XCX never confirmed who she was singing about, leaving a cloud of curiosity that lingered throughout Swift’s subsequent releases, including the melancholy “The Tortured Poets Department” and the arena‑pumping anthems of the Eras TourLos Angeles.
Dissecting "Actually Romantic"
Swift’s new track opens with a line that feels like a direct accusation: “I heard you call me ‘Boring Barbie’ when the coke’s got you brave.” The lyric references a rumor that XCX once dubbed Swift a plastic icon in a backstage exchange. The verse continues, “High‑fived my ex and then you said you’re glad he ghosted me / Wrote me a song saying it makes you sick to see my face,” which mirrors the lyrical content of XCX’s “Sympathy Is a Knife.”
In the chorus, Swift flips the script: “But it’s actually sweet, all the time you’ve spent on me / It’s honestly wild, all the effort you’ve put in / It’s actually romantic, I really got to hand it to you.” The sarcasm is palpable, especially when you consider that XCX’s 2024 BRAT album also features the song “Everything Is Romantic,” a title Swift’s new single deliberately echoes.
Industry insiders note that the track avoids any mention of Swift’s current boyfriend, Travis Kelce, reinforcing the idea that the song is not a love anthem but a calculated rebuttal.
Industry and Fan Reaction
The response has been swift. On Twitter, the hashtag #SwiftXCXBeef trended within minutes, drawing over 200,000 tweets in the first hour. Music critic Emily Torres wrote for Rolling Stone that “Swift has turned a personal grievance into a pop‑culture moment, reviving the tradition of lyrical duels that feels almost nostalgic in today’s meme‑driven landscape.”
Others, like Billboard’s senior editor Raj Patel, argue that the feud is less about drama and more about streaming strategy. Both Swift’s and XCX’s teams have seen a 15‑20% bump in streams for the songs in question, suggesting that the rivalry is paying off in numbers.
Even fellow artists have weighed in. Pop star Lorde, who previously remixed XCX’s “Girl, So Confusing,” posted a cryptic Instagram story featuring a split‑screen of both women’s faces with the caption “history repeats itself.”

What This Means for Pop Culture
The episode signals a broader shift: pop musicians are once again using songs as public statements, a throwback to the feuds of the early 2000s between artists like Beyoncé and Kelly Rowland. The contrast is stark against the recent trend of artists staying silent on social media disputes.
For fans, the spectacle offers a narrative to follow, complete with lyric analyses, meme battles, and call‑and‑response TikTok trends. For the industry, it provides a proof‑of‑concept that controversy can translate into chart success without the need for traditional press tours.
Moreover, the Swift‑XCX saga dovetails with other high‑profile musical clashes—Tate McRae versus The Kid LAROI, and the lingering tension between Olivia Rodrigo and JoJo. As a result, many are dubbing 2024 the “Year of the Pop Beef.”
Looking Ahead: Next Moves
What’s next? XCX has not yet released a formal response, but sources close to her camp hint at a possible remix or a surprise single slated for early October. Swift, meanwhile, is expected to continue her Eras Tour schedule, sprinkling subtle references to the feud into live performances.
Analysts advise fans to keep an eye on streaming platforms: a sudden surge in either artist’s catalog could indicate a new lyrical jab. And, as always, the media will be listening for any off‑stage comments at award shows—especially the upcoming MTV Video Music Awards on September 8, 2024.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is "Actually Romantic" definitely about Charli XCX?
While neither artist has confirmed the target, the lyrical parallels to XCX’s “Sympathy Is a Knife,” the shared phrase “Everything Is Romantic,” and timing of the release strongly suggest Swift is addressing XCX’s earlier accusations.
How have the streaming numbers changed since the feud began?
Both tracks have seen a 15‑20% increase in global streams according to Nielsen SoundScan, with a noticeable spike in TikTok usage of the choruses, indicating the rivalry is boosting listening figures for both artists.
What impact could this have on the upcoming MTV Video Music Awards?
Award show stages often become platforms for surprise performances or on‑air taunts. If XCX drops a counter‑track before the ceremony, fans can expect a possible live showdown or at least a public acknowledgment of the feud.
Are lyrical feuds common in modern pop music?
They’re less frequent than in the early 2000s, but recent years have seen a resurgence with artists like Beyoncé, Megan Thee Stallion, and now Swift using songs to address personal grievances, turning private disputes into public spectacles.
What does this feud say about Swift’s approach to controversy?
Swift appears to favor a measured, musical response over social‑media tirades, allowing her narrative control while simultaneously driving commercial performance and media buzz.